Monday, February 15, 2010
Blog 2: A Doll House #5
The era in which the story A Doll House takes place in is an era that women have been fighting against since the dawning of time. The relationship between Nora and Torvald is not a marriage but a father/daughter relationship. In that I mean that Nora is not treated like a wife, she is treated like Torvald's child. Nora finally realizes her position with Torvald at the end of the story when Torvald expresses his true feelings toward her about the revealing letter Krogstad has written to Torvald explaining how Nora borrowed money behind Torvald's back and going against his wishes of never having to borrow money from anyone for anything. Torvald's ranting had finally ended when everything was cleared up and Nora received her note back. But that was only the beginning for Nora. The critic D.C.R.A. Goonetilleke commented that Nora had gone against conventional middle-class values by acting rebellious against her husband. The values Nora went against was to stand by her husband and do as he told her to do and to not do anything else unless told otherwise. She had had enough with Torvald treating her like she was not capable of anything and by the nicknames Torvald gave her were suggestively demeaning. He would call her names such as "stubborn delicate creature," "his little songbird," "his little squirrel," all of which suggest that she is merely a woman and is subordinate to her husband. She broke the code of a wife when she went against her husband. She went even further by leaving him and their family and venturing off to find herself. In this story, a wife did not need to find herself, she was already a wife and that was that. But not for Nora, she did not want to live her life with someone who treated her as not an equal but as a pretty little thing.
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I totally agree with you and your passage. Torvald and Nora really do have a father/daughter relationship. Its a good thing I think that she took a stance, and actually left him. I really enjoyed reading your post, and opinions about the play. You touched base on a lot of good valid points.
ReplyDeleteI agree with your post. There are clear misogynistic themes throughout this play. Nora is constantly underestimated, underappreciated, and treated like a doll. Torvald in essence patronizes her because society dictates that style of interaction between husband and wife. The right person and most dominant person is the husband all the time. Therefore you are right in comparing the relationship to that of a father and daughter. Father's demand respect and subservience from their children, making Nora no different. She is controlled by Torvald and expected to be fine with it. However in the end, Nora does a brave, unthinkable thing by leaving Torvald to show that her happiness is not dictated by his happiness. Thank you for your post, it was a good read.
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